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Happy Wedding Anniversary My Darling Philip

  • Writer: Furong Xing Naghten
    Furong Xing Naghten
  • Dec 28, 2023
  • 3 min read

Updated: Apr 8

Happy Wedding Anniversary My Darling Philip



Your unwavering love has been
a precious and invaluable gift during my darkest hours
a love that I will undoubtedly treasure and cherish it forever


Our Wedding
Our Wedding

Today, my dearest husband, we are celebrating another year of our marriage, still and all, the significance of this anniversary goes far beyond the usual occasion, since it is a day to acknowledge the tremendous strength of our bond, the unqualified love that binds us, and most importantly, the unwavering support that has been my rock through the darkest hours following the unexpected and sudden loss of my beautiful mum

Our wedding vows, spoke of standing by each other, in sickness and health, in happiness and sorrow, little did we know how profoundly those vows would be tested, and the weight of those words truly manifested in our shared grief, instead of pulling us apart, our love not only endured, but strengthened, it is a testament to the depth of our love, which flourished even in the shadow of the devastating loss of my precious mum

Our wedding anniversary is not just a celebration of the day we said "I do", but a testimony to the longevity of our marriage, in helping me through the moments, when I felt I could not carry the weight of my grief any longer, and providing me with comfort and empathy, when the burden of my loss became too much to bear, you have demonstrated that, our love can triumph over, even in the face of the most excruciating traverse

On this special day, our wedding anniversary, the air is filled with the sweetest fragrance of our love and the poignant echoes of heartbreaking loss of my cherished mum, and we find ourselves navigating the delicate balance between celebration and reflection, while we are toasting the love that unites us, the shadows of grief cast by her absence are ever present, but you have been showing me the true meaning of partnership


On this wedding anniversary, I am reminded that our love is not just about joyous times, it is about navigating the storms together, and it is about our commitment to each other, has weathered not only the highs, but also the lows, especially, in the wake of losing my mum so abruptly, yet, in the midst of this upheaval, you emerged as my steadfast anchor, which soothed my heartache, when the ground beneath me felt shaky

Today, we are marking another year together, we honour our love and the solidity, that has signified in the face of adversity, losing my darling mum so soon, thrust us into a journey of grief, neither of us was prepared for, what mattered most was not the eloquence of spoken phrases, but was the power of your presence, as your willingness to sit in the silence, hold me when my tears flowed, and simply be there, spoke volumes

Happy wedding anniversary, my love, today, we are celebrating not only the years we have shared, but also together, we are holding each other up, and carrying the heaviness of our awful loss as a united front, here is to a future filled with endless love, deep understanding, and continued companionship on this unpredictable journey of life, and here is to the many chapters of rapture, resilience, and shared growth that lie ahead
 
 
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Furong Xing Naghten

I am a motherless daughter and an adult orphan, who loves passionately and grieves intensely, as I write and share about my personal grief journey with others, after I lost my darling Mum on 04 October 2022

to major stroke so suddely and so unexpectedly, with the hope that it might comfort, help and inspire people on their own journey.

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"Mum, I will forever 
cherish the love that
we once shared "

Furong
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A smile and a wave 
you were loved by all

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 In the midst of mourning of

my darling Mum’s unexpected and sudden passing

I found comfort in the written word

the paper absorbed my tears and the pen

became the companion to my grief-stricken heart

the emotions, too overwhelming for spoken language

found refuge in the silent conversation between ink and paper "

- Furong Xing Naghten

Furong
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