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Grief is a powerful teacher, albeit a harsh one!

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You Taught Me Everything
Including How to Live Without You

In this new world without my darling Mum, I will never be the same
but I will live by her priceless teachings and carry her name for the rest of my life


My darling Ma
from the moment I entered this world and throughout my life
you were the most influential figure in my entire existence
since you were my first and the most enduring teacher
as you taught me everything from the basics of survival of
how to walk, speak, and eat, and how to navigate the world
to the invaluable lessons about morals, principles, and life
 
My dearest Ma
life was not always a smooth journey but filled with challenges
you expertly taught me how to persevere through storms and
showed all of us what it means to never give up with courage
and determination to carry on even in the face of the impossible
but the loss of you was a profound and life changing experience
I walked on this new path without a compass in your absence
 
My beautiful Ma
in the midst of my grief, every day has been an utter struggle
the void you left behind seemed insurmountable to overcome
when it got too unmanageable, too unbearable, and too dark
all I wanted to do was to follow you and to be reunited with you
but I remember you taught me to stand when my world fell apart
and you demonstrated the resilience that resides deep within
 
My precious Ma
with each passing day, your legacy of wisdom takes deep root
I have been learning to mend my own wounds and bleeding heart
to be brave and strong, to live even when it feels like the end and
to continue moving forward, despite the fact that it feels so wrong
you taught me how to live, even when I faced unimaginable grief
since you taught me everything including how to live without you


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Furong Xing Naghten

I am a motherless daughter and an adult orphan, who loves passionately and grieves intensely, as I write and share about my personal grief journey with others, after I lost my darling Mum on 04 October 2022

to major stroke so suddely and so unexpectedly, with the hope that it might comfort, help and inspire people on their own journey.

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"Mum, I carry your strength
with every step I take
on this new path
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Furong
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A smile and a wave 
you were loved by all

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 In the midst of mourning of

my darling Mum’s unexpected and sudden passing

I found comfort in the written word

the paper absorbed my tears and the pen

became the companion to my grief-stricken heart

the emotions, too overwhelming for spoken language

found refuge in the silent conversation between ink and paper "

- Furong Xing Naghten

Furong
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