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I Do Not Give A Damn! (Part One)
My grief journey is mine to navigate, by deciding not to give a damn
about others' opinions frees me to embrace an unapologetic authenticity

I do not give a damn
what people think about me
I shall grieve when I want
I shall grieve how I want
I shall grieve where I want
I do not give a damn
when people judge or criticise me
I shall NOT hurry up with my grief
I shall NOT move on from my grief
I shall NOT get over my grief for my Mum
I do not give a damn
if people get on with their own lives
I shall continue speaking of my Mum
I shall continue writing her memories
I shall continue honouring her legacy
I just do not give a dam
where people misunderstand me
I shall love and grieve my Mum forever
I shall think and miss her every day
I shall treasure and cherish her always

I am a motherless daughter and an adult orphan, who loves passionately and grieves intensely, as I write and share about my personal grief journey with others, after I lost my darling Mum on 04 October 2022
to major stroke so suddely and so unexpectedly, with the hope that it might comfort, help and inspire people on their own journey.
"Mum, I carry your strength
with every step I take
on this new path "
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