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Mum’s Pretty Garden:
Where Her Spirit Blooms Forever
Mum, your garden has become a place where love continues to bloom
where grief softens into gratitude, where your spirit lingers
forever woven into the roots and petals

There is a garden at home, my Mum’s garden
was never designed to impress with grandeur
nor would it have won any awards, but to us
this patch of earth is the most extraordinary place
in the world, the prettiest garden in existence
because it is where her spirit lives, in its vibrant
blooms, its trees, and its whispers of nature
She spent countless hours tending to her garden
as if it was her dear friend, she poured her soul
into its soil, she nurtured the earth with the same
tenderness, patience, and devotion, that mirrored
the love she shared with those around her
every petal that unfurled, every leaf that danced
in the breeze, bore witness to her cheerful spirit
And then, on that fateful day, she was gone
so unexpectedly, so suddenly, so quietly
returning home without her felt impossible
but her garden called to me, in the dark
in the cold air, in the stillness, I sat there for hours
in that moment, I felt her, in a miraculous closeness
as if she was right beside me, she was still alive
Ever since that day, her garden has been more
than just a collection of flowers and plants
it has become my sanctuary, where her love still
grows, rowdy, beautiful, and eternal, where
heaven and earth shake hands, but this little Eden
still hers, after all, I am just its grateful guest
her garden is alive, and oh, how alive she remains

I am a motherless daughter and an adult orphan, who loves passionately and grieves intensely, as I write and share about my personal grief journey with others, after I lost my darling Mum on 04 October 2022
to major stroke so suddely and so unexpectedly, with the hope that it might comfort, help and inspire people on their own journey.
"Mum, I carry your strength
with every step I take
on this new path "
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